Arama They Didn't

2:50 pm - 11/05/2010

Picture of classroom out of control emerges in wake of bullied 6th grader's suicide

MAEBASHI -- Two weeks since the suicide of a sixth grader in Kiryu, Gunma Prefecture, a picture of a classroom out of control has begun to take shape.

Akiko Uemura, 12, who was found hanged by a scarf in her room on Oct. 23, transferred from an elementary school in Aichi Prefecture when her family moved to Kiryu in October 2008. It was after her Filipino mother visited the school on parents' visitation day in 2009 that Akiko's classmates began commenting on her appearance.

 

After Akiko began sixth grade this past April, classmates started saying that she smelled bad and asked her if she bathed. Akiko appealed to her parents to let her transfer to another school, saying that she was willing to walk to school no matter how far. Her parents sought advice from the school on numerous occasions, and considered moving elsewhere once Akiko finished elementary school.

In late September, Akiko's classmates began to sit as far away from her as possible at lunchtime despite their homeroom teacher's admonitions to stay in designated groups. According to Akiko's mother, Akiko asked a classmate to eat lunch with her in mid-October, only to be refused.

On Oct. 19 and 20, Akiko stayed home from school. Her homeroom teacher called her at home to encourage her to come to school on the next day, as the class was going on a field trip. On Oct. 21, however, some of Akiko's classmates questioned her about why she only came to school when there was a special event and whether she was otherwise playing hooky, and Akiko came home in tears.

Akiko stayed home from school again on Oct. 22, and when her homeroom teacher visited her home that evening -- when her parents happened to be at work -- to report on the school's decision to abolish lunchtime groupings, no one answered the door. On Oct. 23, Akiko woke up around 9 a.m. and had breakfast. When her mother looked into her room around noon, she was hanging from a curtain rail by a scarf that she had been knitting for her mother.

No suicide note has been found, but after her funeral on Oct. 26, manga entitled "Friends Are Great!" that Akiko appears to have drawn before her suicide was found. In a letter addressed to Akiko's former classmate in Aichi that was found on Oct. 29, Akiko wrote: "I'm going to Osaka for junior high. So we might pass through Aichi. I'll visit you if I can!"

Meanwhile, the faces of 15 classmates found in a photo taken during an overnight school trip when Akiko was in fifth grade were crossed out with what looked like ballpoint pen, and in response to a question from an autograph book asking what she wanted if she were granted one wish, she had written, "make school disappear."

At Akiko's elementary school, located among farms and new residential areas, the sixth grade students were divided into two homerooms. One classmate said, "There was a group of students who bullied Akiko. She looked really sad when they said things like 'Get of the way' and 'Go away.' No one tried to stop them."

Another classmate said that other students had no choice but to go along with the bullying. "There were a few people who were at the center of the group, and the other students were too scared to defy them. The class was in chaos."

mdnjp

so sad, yet creepy upon reading the last parts (>_<)
may Akiko RIP


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[info]mjspice 5th-Nov-2010 08:51 am (UTC)
:(:(! Poor girl! :(:(
[info]fallblau_129 5th-Nov-2010 12:49 pm (UTC)
true. such a sad story>.
[info]smilling_kiddo 5th-Nov-2010 08:52 am (UTC)
so sad :(
poor Aiko :( God bless you, :(
[info]misty__eyed 5th-Nov-2010 08:54 am (UTC)
:( Poor girl.
[info]meissa 5th-Nov-2010 08:56 am (UTC)
This is just so awful. Children can be so cruel and they don't even realize or understand the depths of their cruelty.

RIP.
[info]cassyclim8 6th-Nov-2010 12:47 am (UTC)
this.
[info]yukimi_chan 5th-Nov-2010 08:57 am (UTC)
Poor thing. Kids can be so mean.
[info]alfymasamune 5th-Nov-2010 08:58 am (UTC)
Kids are so damn evil, i could
never do or say things like that
to someone, those kids must be
rotten inside.

To die so young is horrible
without really experiencing life.

May she rest in peace.
[info]gigabytexx 5th-Nov-2010 08:59 am (UTC)
:(
She's still too young for doing that :(
[info]neko_mau 5th-Nov-2010 09:05 am (UTC)
oh my.. i'm in tears with this. i never thought this is still happening. poor girl. RIP Akiko.
[info]doujoushin 5th-Nov-2010 09:07 am (UTC)
Tears me up just to read about this.
I want to blame the children, but they're all just 12 years old, it's the parents (of the kids who bullied her) and the school which is most to blame if you ask me. Doesn't make it okay though, I really hope those kids realize what they did.
[info]uchikins 5th-Nov-2010 01:12 pm (UTC)
I agree with you 100%. There are still so many parents who unknowingly (and sometimes knowingly) teaches their children that there is a difference between Japanese people and everyone else and how especially other Asians are "bad" :/
[info]pornoroughtype 5th-Nov-2010 09:18 am (UTC)
At least the bullies will have to live with it for the rest of their lives.
[info]blazingeternity 5th-Nov-2010 06:01 pm (UTC)
Only if they ever come to a point of feeling "guilt". I made the experience (not to this dramatic extense though) that bullies, especially when they act in a group, what they mostly do, don't recognize and acknowledge their fault and - probably even in an act of psychological self-defense, I dunno - push all the blame on the victim.
Like "No one would commit suicide just because I push them down the stairs, burn their books and hide their chairs. That person must have had other serious issues and if they're that weak, they would have commited suicide sooner or later anyway."

Some people, no matter if children or grown-ups, seem to have missed their chunk of empathy when piling up their heap of brain. I know adults who used to destroy other people's lifes as teens and now live a happy life with their family and they're even able to still laugh when you tell them that their victim needs psychological support even years later ._.

Where's karma and its what goes around, comes around when people really deserve it?...
[info]yanyan 5th-Nov-2010 09:22 am (UTC)
I hope those kids carry their guilt all their lives.
If they don't even feel guilty, then that's just says so much about how they were raised.
[info]salkun 5th-Nov-2010 02:27 pm (UTC)
That's...a little harsh. I mean, yeah, these kids need to learn that they were the catalyst for a really tragic event, but you can't condemn them to a life of psychological torment because of that. They need to realize that what they did was wrong, definitely, but I'd much rather hear that this made them more proactive about stopping bullying than hear that one of the classmates also committed suicide later down the road because of guilt.
[info]clara_maria 5th-Nov-2010 09:31 am (UTC)
it's so sad, those things still happening every day...and will be forgotten after a short while
may she rest in peace
[info]aniga64 5th-Nov-2010 09:39 am (UTC)
omg . . . she was hanging from a curtain rail by a scarf that she had been knitting for her mother. ;_;
[info]liime_arix 5th-Nov-2010 10:29 am (UTC)
That is the part that made me burst out in tears.
[info]chockabon 5th-Nov-2010 09:41 am (UTC)
omigod I've never heard of a twelve year old committing suicide, this is insane.
[info]dareka 5th-Nov-2010 09:47 am (UTC)
slightly OT, but there was this earlier in the year.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/04/07/girl-6-commits-suicide-me_n_528046.html
[info]ohmiya_sg 5th-Nov-2010 09:42 am (UTC)
Judging you so hard right now, Japan.
[info]crystalluvshun 5th-Nov-2010 11:55 am (UTC)
it's not like bullying only happens in Japan.

Although it's sad what happened to that girl...but this is certainly not the first case of suicide due to bullying that I have read.
I read once of a case a 9 year old girl in America was tormented & bullied at school & was found dead in the school toilet, she had cut her own wrists with a chisel.

Bullying, of any form is wrong, but this doesn't change my opinions on Japan at all, because bullying doesn't just happen in Japan, it happens EVERYWHERE in this world. Personally, I have read more bullying cases in other countries, than in Japan.
[info]keyllastic 5th-Nov-2010 09:49 am (UTC)
I hate how cruel kids are. Been there, got the shirt.
RIP.
[info]maishoku 5th-Nov-2010 09:50 am (UTC)
Ugh, this is so sad, especially how she hung herself with the scarf she's been knitting halfway for her mother. RIP, Akiko. Things like this make me feel scared to have kids.
[info]kushina 5th-Nov-2010 09:57 am (UTC)
:(

Rest in peace.
[info]aprilchaos_88 5th-Nov-2010 10:01 am (UTC)
oh, whyyyyy??? the world is so scary T.T
[info]spicy_mcspice 5th-Nov-2010 10:02 am (UTC)
This is just awful. That poor girl :(
RIP
[info]eskarina77 5th-Nov-2010 10:03 am (UTC)
God bless you Akiko.
That's a sad story.
[info]lheeyah 5th-Nov-2010 10:05 am (UTC)
That's horrible =O I hope those kids realized what they did
[info]ocha_suki 5th-Nov-2010 10:23 am (UTC)
so sad for her...may she RIP
*i can't even continue watching "Smile" after 1st ep. until now coz i hate racism, and it's only a drama!
whilst she had to deal with it in RL :(*
[info]chooseylover31 5th-Nov-2010 10:37 am (UTC)
this is like Smile made into real life. minus of course the drama of the police, but this is racism in the flesh, and outcomes in the face of suicide. but i finished Smile even if it's too painful to watch.

on topic, may she rest in peace. Akiko's only 12.. about the same age as my younger sister.. good heavens.
[info]hsj_is_love_17 5th-Nov-2010 10:31 am (UTC)
That's so depressing ;_;...And only in 6th grade too!
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