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12:56 am - 08/23/2012

From Host to Rental Boyfriends

Osaka ‘boy toys’ available for rent nationwide


Fees start at 6,000 yen per hour
Shukan Jitsuwa July 19

For decades, lonely women have been going to host clubs to be served by overly attentive men in a date-like setting. Shukan Jitsuwa (July 19), however, has found an entrepreneurial enterprise that has inverted the concept whereby “rental boyfriends” come to customers.

Osaka-based Eterna (エテルナ) allows ladies to select a man of their choice from its Web site. The agency will then send him to any location in Japan.

The hosts, who typically sport long hair and slick suits, are ranked according to popularity. Their height, weight, blood type, interests, and other basic information are provided.

“The majority of the customers are from the adult-entertainment industry, but now working professionals and housewives are showing interest,” says a newspaper reporter covering national news.

Basic fees begin at 6,000 yen per hour. Extended plans, which might include overnight trips, are also available at a rate of 40,000 yen for eight hours. Other expenses, such as transportation and dining costs, are to be borne by the lady.

Shukan Jitsuwa says that there are days where more than 30 reservations are made. The service has 33 men registered on its books, “including one who advanced to the finals of a handsome man competition,” says an individual affiliated with Eterna. “A woman can enjoy the feeling of having a date while dining or during a trip. Eterna means forever in Latin. As the agency’s name says, we want clients to enjoy soothing moments for an eternity.”


Naturally, the magazine assumes that sexual services are provided by the boy toys, but the agency prohibits such activities. Further, the establishment of a personal relationship with a customer is also not allowed.

The majority of the women are in their 30s and 40s. “One can become beautiful inside in a way that supersedes any available cosmetics,” says a customer.

Shukan Jitsuwa is a bit skeptical as a woman’s motivation for such a service.

“In this cold-cut society, women do not possess the skills nor the time to examine their eroticism,” says Jiro Harue, a researcher in anthropology. “There is no real reason to refuse an opportunity to rent out a good-looking man if it is available. This is especially true for those raised in the era of the convenience store.”

Harue goes on to say that female members of this generation have hormonal imbalances as a result of the nutrition they received while in the womb.

“Renting a partner by resorting to financial means is typically something men do,” says the researcher. “Women originally found excitement in being dominated. I know it is acceptable to have a wide range of businesses, but I feel a bit sad to see the tables turning.” (A.T.)

Source:http://www.tokyoreporter.com/2012/07/17/osaka-boy-toys-available-for-rent-nationwide/

Original Source: “‘Rentaru kareshi’ daiseikyo no wake,” Shukan Jitsuwa (July 19, page 197)

My two cents: Men have been buying escorts, hookers, and strippers for centuries so why so pressed that women are renting boyfriends especially with  the herbivore problem. Also the comments about women and their erotisism, hormonal imbalances, as well as finding excitement in being dominated...and I know you didn't mean that in a BDSM way...just please have a seat.


My first post submission, please be kind.



synthesizia 23rd-Aug-2012 06:30 am (UTC)
Here for Bam.

Haven't read the article because of possible sexist double standards. But totally for this idea.
fukkthedumbshyt 23rd-Aug-2012 06:56 am (UTC)
I miss his show and he had the greatest wedding EVER.
synthesizia 23rd-Aug-2012 07:09 am (UTC)
Thinking of his show makes me think of Dunn and then I get really sad, :(
fictionitusxd 23rd-Aug-2012 08:51 pm (UTC)
THIS!!! BEST REALITY SHOW EVER!!!!
tegomanhoe 23rd-Aug-2012 06:32 am (UTC)
This happened since long time ago, though it still kinda underground. Btw it's really nice if you're a single lady with successful career, you have money and you don't like being attached to a single guy, you can be a heroine in ur own shoujo story.

"but I feel a bit sad to see the tables turning."
Typical asian issue. Personally i dont mind at all if a girl approached me first, it's not like you're living in 1930's.......
katzsong 23rd-Aug-2012 06:34 am (UTC)
This reminds me of a CSI eps. this whole rent-a-boyfriend thing and the relationship ends when they have sex.
On another note, hey men, if you think being dominated is fun for women, why don't you try it as well? It's good to have reversed-role now and then, you know. Keeps live exciting :P
doinkies 23rd-Aug-2012 06:38 am (UTC)
Shukan Jitsuwa is the bottom of the barrel when it comes to tabloids, so it's no surprise this article sucks.
fukkthedumbshyt 23rd-Aug-2012 06:56 am (UTC)
Thanks, I'm glad to know that now. I'm probably familiar with only one Japanese tabloid so at least now I know why this was such a messed up article.
ohprecioustime 23rd-Aug-2012 07:12 am (UTC)
The documentary about hosts I watched is like in my top 5 most depressing, lol

Some desperate lonely people tbh go there or use their services
fauxparadiso 23rd-Aug-2012 12:23 pm (UTC)
The Great Happiness Space I presume?
fukkthedumbshyt 23rd-Aug-2012 02:43 pm (UTC)
That documentary made me want to cry. There is nothing happy about living a lie to me.
coika 23rd-Aug-2012 03:44 pm (UTC)
Unfortunately since most relationships in Japan are forged on "image" alone to some extent and ignoring the lie, it doesn't come off the same way to a good chunk of Japanese as it does to foreigners. Kind of like if you pretend enough you can convince yourself it's real or normal.


winds_daichi 23rd-Aug-2012 10:32 pm (UTC)
Yes!!!! I seen that documentary four times and I still can't get over how lonely most of the women were. It made me feel really sorry for them. And for the other part that they were mostly "Soapland" women. T.T Just a sad reality.
4miu_miu 23rd-Aug-2012 11:21 pm (UTC)

is there a link somewhere so I can watch it? Thanks
mikilove13 23rd-Aug-2012 11:39 pm (UTC)
Youtube
4miu_miu 24th-Aug-2012 12:20 am (UTC)

thank you
hisjulliet 23rd-Aug-2012 08:21 am (UTC)
op A+
phililen3 23rd-Aug-2012 09:16 am (UTC)
Talking about hosts, No Regrets comes to mind....
tha_x 23rd-Aug-2012 10:59 am (UTC)
if they don't really allow sex I see no biggie
shiro_renja 23rd-Aug-2012 11:49 am (UTC)
hey! if you can rent a family for weddings or mourners for funerals. Why not rent a boyfriend? I'm all for it, men have been doing it for ages, let the women join in.
fukkthedumbshyt 23rd-Aug-2012 02:43 pm (UTC)
What?!
shiro_renja 23rd-Aug-2012 05:11 pm (UTC)
http://community.seattletimes.nwsource.com/archive/?date=19920513&slug=1491524 Not only Japan does it, other countries too. Usually it's for weddings, like if you don't have a lot of family members coming vs. your spouse who has 200people, you can rent people to come and sit on your side and pretend to be family members.

Same goes for funerals, you can rent people to come and cry at your funeral if you know not a lot of people will show up.

I've always wondered how you become one of those stand-ins...coz I would do it!
fukkthedumbshyt 23rd-Aug-2012 07:58 pm (UTC)
Wow, I guess that would be awkward if one half of the wedding party was huge and the other almost non-existent. Never really thought about that.
volcanoandice 25th-Aug-2012 11:57 pm (UTC)
A lot of people don't assign sides anymore, for this reason (and others).

I got married in the US two months ago, my husband's family was all in Japan and they couldn't make it. My family and friends were all there, but he only had a few friends from his time in college/grad school. So we just evenly distributed both sides during the ceremony. He was already very close to some of my parents' good friends and my friends. So it wasn't a big deal and he had a lot of people there for both of us, even though they met him through me.
fauxparadiso 23rd-Aug-2012 12:34 pm (UTC)
While the so-called anthropologist at the end can go screw him himself, let's not pretend this service is such a progressive step. The people involved in host/escort services are usually there due to bleak circumstances, and I don't really approve of a service that sends guys off on their own without a bodyguard or backup protection.

And let's be real, the company is not going to outwardly state that they allow sexual services because Japan has an anti-prostitution law. I can believe that customer relationships are banned (because it's bad business) but it would be naive to think that sexual services aren't being done under the table.
gashinenai 23rd-Aug-2012 12:42 pm (UTC)
so a man can rent escorts or strippers because duh! he's a man, but a woman can't rent a boyfriend?
celestialchild 28th-Aug-2012 01:43 am (UTC)
A FUCKING PLUS FOR ELI GOLD OUTRAGE GIF
fangirlingspazz 23rd-Aug-2012 12:55 pm (UTC)
I'm interested with rental bf but they'll probably cost a lot. =p
mjspice 23rd-Aug-2012 01:12 pm (UTC)
OP your username matches this article so much. O_O
stole_away 23rd-Aug-2012 02:07 pm (UTC)
i thought this existed since long time ago but oh well
fukkthedumbshyt 23rd-Aug-2012 02:47 pm (UTC)
Someone else said so too but it was new news to me. I more so posted it because of the tabloids opinion of the women who choose to use such services.
kyotaku 23rd-Aug-2012 02:15 pm (UTC)
As the agency’s name says, we want clients to enjoy soothing moments for an eternity as long as they have money.

Sorry, couldn't help it XD


And lol at this guy. Who's enjoying being dominated? Time to wake up XD
dramaticsurgeon 23rd-Aug-2012 03:27 pm (UTC)
It's always interesting to see the domination issue come up when it comes to monetary-compensated relationships. As I remember one professional dominatrix saying, people who hire someone to dominate or humiliate them are still the ones holding the purse strings...so technically they're the ones in charge. It's a complicated power exchange. Kind of like "I'm paying you to take control, so you'd better do it the way I like it or I won't come back."

Anyway, nothing new that I can tell. It seems to be just an updated version of the gigolo, adjusted to be a short term, no-strings-attached relationship that may or may not involve sex. Rich women have "bought" men for centuries this way.

But I had to laugh at the article lamenting how women used to be excited by dominant men. Some still are, while others prefer to do the dominating, and still others don't care as long as he puts the toilet seat down.
chibi_hime 23rd-Aug-2012 03:27 pm (UTC)
Stupid double standard...

For men, going to a hostess club is seen as a social thing. You can bring your co-workers, clients, etc. But if a woman goes to a host club, she's MUST be lonely and getting older in age.

SCREW THAT!

shaphat oh23rd-Aug-2012 03:30 pm (UTC)
Well I don't think it's a problem. I mean if the lady doesn't want to attend an event on her own then renting a guy may make her feel more at ease. Or maybe the lady is very busy with her work and has no time to establish an actual relationship but would like to go on dates to amuse herself. Well, if it were me I may rent one to show me around town XD

coika 23rd-Aug-2012 03:49 pm (UTC)
At least this is somewhat better than being a host. Ugh I used to know some hosts because I had a friend who got sucked into the clubs world and damn the amount of alcohol they had to consume each night really did a number on their health. You feel bad for both parties, because neither is getting much of anything positive out of the situation.
lovely_tunes 23rd-Aug-2012 04:26 pm (UTC)
tbh

more power to those women
toshi_hakari 23rd-Aug-2012 05:01 pm (UTC)
First post here and already some flawless comments about this article <3 You might just become my most favorite member here ;)

That being said, if women want to rent a man and have sex with him, why not? It's been done in Europe for a while too with escorts. I think it's kinda a pity that women aren't allowed to have sex with them in this case... for that amount of money, it should be allowed ;) (I do agree with the one arama member here who said that sexual services are probably offered/done unofficially).

Also, LOL, it's not at all comparable to prostitution. A lot of men who go into escort (here) are doing it for fun and there's not the same social stigma that prostitutes are usually faced with.

Edited at 2012-08-23 05:01 pm (UTC)
fukkthedumbshyt 23rd-Aug-2012 08:07 pm (UTC)
Thanks, I was nervous as hell to post here but this article just really struck a nerve with me and I just had to see if I wasn't the only one willing to face palm at this.


I agree escorts and prostitutes are different but it just bothers me that if a woman chooses to employ the services of either one it's such a bad thing.

Even if a man is busted with a prostitute it's wrong because it is illegal but it wouldn't necessarily be considered shocking.
pandapaw 23rd-Aug-2012 05:49 pm (UTC)
i want one :3
thingofshadows 23rd-Aug-2012 06:23 pm (UTC)
“Renting a partner by resorting to financial means is typically something men do,” says the researcher. ... "I feel a bit sad to see the tables turning."

I don't.

Why is it sad that women who have the means are now able to buy companionship from men if they choose to?
amenooto 24th-Aug-2012 04:45 pm (UTC)
cause they don't want us to be financially independent and be housewives 4ever
haruno21 23rd-Aug-2012 06:38 pm (UTC)
I want to cry at the amount of sexism and double standards in this article...

a "hormonal inbalances"? is he srs? we are not excited at being dominated and represed. who is this fucker? sb shut him up
thomasvye 23rd-Aug-2012 06:39 pm (UTC)
The host club that comes to your door. marvellous. :D
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